Some Signs to check that your Wife is having an Affair
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A psychoanalyst named as “Esther Perel” has seen increased cases of cheating from women from last few years. She has claimed that unfaithfulness cases from women have been increased by up to 40 percent as compared to the year 1990.
Some Mysterious Signs that my Wife is having an Affair
Cell Phone is Always on Silent
Your cell phone is the most common way of communication now. If your wife has started to keep her phone on the silent from the loud, it’s a sign that there is something wrong. There can be a reason that she is using this phone for talking or texting with anyone else.
In most of the cases, we see that people who have extramarital affair like to keep their cell phones on silent.
Changed Her All Passwords
Marriage is a very deep relationship between two souls. After the marriage, your life should be like an open book for each other. But if your wife is changing her passwords frequently then it is a mysterious sign.
It can include the passwords of cell phones, laptops, tablets, and social media accounts. If this is true in your case then you should keep your eyes open. Changing passwords is the most common sign that there can be something wrong in your relationship or anyone from you has lost the factor of trust.
Calling you with Any Other Name
Slip of tongue and Freudian slip are mostly considered as a bad sign but sometimes it can be a blessing for you as it can tell you some truth too. According to a famous Dr. Rumi if your wife has called you with any other name on the bed (intentionally or unintentionally) it can be a clear sign that your wife is having an affair with someone else. But, off course it cannot be true in all the cases but there are higher chances of an affair.
She Calls and Treats you as a Friend
Many marriage advisors also claim that when the wives have an emotional affair with someone else, they like to treat their husbands most likely as friends only. If you are observing some similar kind of behavior from some time then you might need to think a bit.
Similarly, if you have seen some changed conversation from your wife then it’s also a bad sign for you. Usually, the husband sees that their wives use no romantic words while they are having an affair.
Taking Some Extra Care of Herself
If your wife is taking extra care of herself, giving some special attention to her looks and that is not for you then it’s not a good sign for your relationship. Recent cases and surveys have proved that the wives who have an extramarital affair like to pay some special attention to their physical appearances. They might try to look up as another person or want to catch physical attention.
Excess Use of Social Media Apps
If you are using social media websites very frequently then there are higher chances that you will destroy your family relationships. Moreover, people who use social media websites in excess are usually depressed. Social media apps like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram are also used for communication purposes. If your wife has started using social media websites regularly then it’s not a good gesture for you. Moreover, the use of some special status (frustrated, change in relationship status) on social media websites are also a bad gesture in a relationship.
Her Phone is Always Busy
Men cannot always stay at home as they have many other tasks to do as well. We have already regarded “cell phone on silent” and “change of cell passwords” as mysterious signs. If the phone of your wife is always busy on other calls then it can be a sign that your wife is having an affair.
Claiming that She is Not Happy or Satisfied
In some cases, we have seen that the wives clearly inform their husbands that they are not happy from this relationship, it can be due to many reasons that we have already discussed in “signs of common marriage problems”. If your scenario is the same then you need to pay some special attention to your relationship before it’s too late.
Acts Like a Guilty or Criminal
We all act like a guilty if we have done something wrong or we are cheating someone. If your wife is acting as guilty then you might need to observe the things very closely. Obviously, it can also be a sign that your wife is having an emotional affair.
She is Accusing you of Infidelity and Cheating
According to the old school of thought, many people claim that the people who are committed with each, also accuse their spouse of cheating. The reason can be that they are extra sensitive or don’t want to lose each other but that is not true always.
Now, we have seen the people who have extramarital affairs (Both Husband or Wife) accuse another one of cheating and infidelity. That is also done to hide their own affairs. So, if your spouse always accuses you of cheating without any proves then it’s clearly an alarming sign and you need to sit together to sort out the things in a good way.
She Wants to Spend her Spare Time Alone
For a husband, it’s not a good sign that her wife likes to spend her spare time alone. As healthy and good couples spend most of the spare time with each other. If you have noted that your wife has suddenly started spending the time alone then you also need to discuss your personal issues. It can be due to the reason that a wife is not happy with a husband.
Amanda Love is a marriage consultant and a relation advisor. She is a lawyer by profession that mainly deals in the issues related to marriage, divorce and physical abuse.